Why You Gotta Take One Day At A Time
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I need to get better at writing, but why write something when there´s nothing to write about. Rambling again doesn´t seem to be a good thing to do, BUT I do have some tea to spill aka me talking about the good and the bad of this weeks events.
I have nothing to say about Monday to be honest. I just studied that day, nothing special.
BUT Tuesday was my job interview that I had been waiting for, and I´m pretty sure it went well. They said they were very intrigued by what I had to say and give to the workplace and the people I´d be working with. The practical part of the interview wasn´t so bad either. I had to know names and functions for some cables and what the different "holes" on the computer and projector was.
All in all it went well. If I don´t get the job that´s fine too. I did my best and I do know IT stuff, but no one knows everything. If I don´t get the job, it just means that they found people who fits the job better, and I know there are some of those, but I would like the job because of practical experience, something to do during the days and of course some extra money. I try to save up for things I wanna do. I also wanna save up for my future plans when I start working and need an apartment and all that stuff. But for now lets hope I get the job. I´ll know the week of my final exam and when I go back home.
Wednesday was an amazing day. Let me tell you the weather this week is warm and bright and so nice. And on this day me and my best friend went to look at an apartment and we FOUND ONE! We found a good one that´s perfect for us. 2 bedrooms, and the kitchen, living room and bathroom only to us. With a great price as well. Everything except the bedrooms are furnished. I don´t mind that at all since we have some chairs and desks, but a lot of closet space in both bedrooms. I´m so happy. The owner said she would like for us to pay for one month earlier, and I´m totally okay with it if we get a place like this. It´s on the 4th floor though which means a lot of heavy lifting, but I´m strong so I can do it. It also has a little balcony were the sun shines all day. I mean how can you not want it?
So we said we´d sign a contract, and we also get to move our stuff in earlier so we´ll feel safer over the summer.
Thursday was just another study day. Nothing much going on that day, but now comes Friday were there´s some tea to spill. I will not mention any names, but I will just tell you how it went. So this person was I would call a good friend of mine, minus the good part since I got hurt over and over again. He put on twitter that he´s done with his dad being a drunkie all the time and not getting better what so ever. I tried to make it better by saying that his father needs him by his side and you have to just keep going. But he kept saying its not worth it and he wants nothing to do with his dad which I feel very sad for the dad. Recovery doesn´t happen over night and it definitely doesn´t get better by people yelling and leaving the person. So I tried to be optimistic and keep telling him that he needs to be strong and help his father, but he kept shutting me down and then he said that optimism doesn´t work all the time and doesn´t get you far, and that I should stop. So I called him ungreatful and weak because he goes on twitter to talk about really personal things instead of trying to make it better at home.. It´s not the first time btw.. It´s just the first time that day. He also said that I was in a simpler situation when in fact I am not.. Yes, I don´t have a parent that´s alcoholic, but one of my best friends from high school did and I was with her a lot and I know the situation well. So saying someone doesn´t know the situation when you don´t even know what they´ve gone through is bullshit..
I got very triggered by this and went off on him telling him he doesn´t know shit about my situation and he needs to bull himself together and stop being such a brat and a know it all and try to do the best he can do with how his life is now. He never knows how to stop.. And I tried my best to make it better and to make sure he felt better, but if he´s gonna go that way I legit can´t stand it anymore..
Anyway that was the first thing he wanted to argue so flippin much about that day. Next is in a discord server. And we were just sending memes a few of us (not him yet) and he send a meme about abortion.. Fine I don´t mind the meme.. But then he starts talking about abortion and that men have the right to have the baby even though the woman doesn´t and all this bullshit. I seriously was fed up with his shit already, so I said "Dude, stfu.. There´s a time for everything. This isn´t the time to talk about abortion.. And not in this chat" And he just continued.. And again I had to tell him off because he expected us to listen to him about this and have the same opinion.. I asked him why he gotta ruin my day 2 times in the same day.. After more arguing I left the server, and deleted him on every social media.. Because I can´t take it anymore. Why is he like this.. I can´t be friends with someone who doesn´t see that he is hurting someone and knows when to stop.. Everyone in the chat told him to just stop. After I left the server one of my actual good friends private messaged me and saying that he said in the chat that I need to stop being so sensitive to everything and it was my fault that I kept reading.. When in fact I went in the chat, we sent memes and laughed and he started suddenly (when no one wanted it) so talk about the serious topic..
Also this was on my countrys national day.. (Norway 17. May) And he still didn´t care..
So lesson learned.. If you have toxic friends, remove them. You don´t need shit from them..
Okay, so lets go to Saturday. I was a bit tired, but it was finally time for Eurovision which is something I live for. So in the day I just relaxed, but later me and my best friend made some snacks and watched it in my room since I have a TV and we could see it better. We had so much fun and died laughing at some of the songs. Also going on twitter and looking at Pewdiepies thoughts on the songs. We had so much fun I think it was illegal. Just kidding, but I think it was my favorite time spent with my best friend in a long time. Or since we watched Endgame in cinemas. I also like that The Netherlands won. The song was very nice. I also made a meme on twitter that got like 2K likes in 2 hours and almost anther thousand likes when hitting the 24 hour mark. Apparently it was funny.
Sunday rolls around and today I feel very productive. I went on a hike up the mountain and it took me 2.5 hours going up and down again. It was very warm too. Like over 65℉. For me it´s warm since I´m used to like half of that. But the view was great and there were so many people there it´s insane. I almost didn´t go all the way up. The beginning is horrible and so tiring, but when you´ve past the worst part it´s pretty easy.. I usually dance my way up and have no trouble after the worst part. There´s a lot of trees around so you get a lot of shadow which was needed. I was also very smart to wear all black.. and but on tights instead of shorts.. Nest time I´ll remember, but I survived.
When I got back down I ate some lunch, took a cold shower and then nap time. I slept for about 2 hours I believe. Not bad after 5 hours of sleep at night and then 2.5 hour hike in the heat. I didn´t feel like studying so I made some dinner and after I played Minecraft. I haven´t played it in a month and I need to finish removing the mountain so I can start building my castle, and the town of course.
Well, that was my week. On to a new one! How did your week go? Tell me in the comments. Also I hope to make videos again soon. I have many videos planned and some filmed. So when I´m finally done with my exam and moving I´ll start editing and uploading again.
I need to get better at writing, but why write something when there´s nothing to write about. Rambling again doesn´t seem to be a good thing to do, BUT I do have some tea to spill aka me talking about the good and the bad of this weeks events.
I have nothing to say about Monday to be honest. I just studied that day, nothing special.
BUT Tuesday was my job interview that I had been waiting for, and I´m pretty sure it went well. They said they were very intrigued by what I had to say and give to the workplace and the people I´d be working with. The practical part of the interview wasn´t so bad either. I had to know names and functions for some cables and what the different "holes" on the computer and projector was.
All in all it went well. If I don´t get the job that´s fine too. I did my best and I do know IT stuff, but no one knows everything. If I don´t get the job, it just means that they found people who fits the job better, and I know there are some of those, but I would like the job because of practical experience, something to do during the days and of course some extra money. I try to save up for things I wanna do. I also wanna save up for my future plans when I start working and need an apartment and all that stuff. But for now lets hope I get the job. I´ll know the week of my final exam and when I go back home.
Wednesday was an amazing day. Let me tell you the weather this week is warm and bright and so nice. And on this day me and my best friend went to look at an apartment and we FOUND ONE! We found a good one that´s perfect for us. 2 bedrooms, and the kitchen, living room and bathroom only to us. With a great price as well. Everything except the bedrooms are furnished. I don´t mind that at all since we have some chairs and desks, but a lot of closet space in both bedrooms. I´m so happy. The owner said she would like for us to pay for one month earlier, and I´m totally okay with it if we get a place like this. It´s on the 4th floor though which means a lot of heavy lifting, but I´m strong so I can do it. It also has a little balcony were the sun shines all day. I mean how can you not want it?
So we said we´d sign a contract, and we also get to move our stuff in earlier so we´ll feel safer over the summer.
Thursday was just another study day. Nothing much going on that day, but now comes Friday were there´s some tea to spill. I will not mention any names, but I will just tell you how it went. So this person was I would call a good friend of mine, minus the good part since I got hurt over and over again. He put on twitter that he´s done with his dad being a drunkie all the time and not getting better what so ever. I tried to make it better by saying that his father needs him by his side and you have to just keep going. But he kept saying its not worth it and he wants nothing to do with his dad which I feel very sad for the dad. Recovery doesn´t happen over night and it definitely doesn´t get better by people yelling and leaving the person. So I tried to be optimistic and keep telling him that he needs to be strong and help his father, but he kept shutting me down and then he said that optimism doesn´t work all the time and doesn´t get you far, and that I should stop. So I called him ungreatful and weak because he goes on twitter to talk about really personal things instead of trying to make it better at home.. It´s not the first time btw.. It´s just the first time that day. He also said that I was in a simpler situation when in fact I am not.. Yes, I don´t have a parent that´s alcoholic, but one of my best friends from high school did and I was with her a lot and I know the situation well. So saying someone doesn´t know the situation when you don´t even know what they´ve gone through is bullshit..
I got very triggered by this and went off on him telling him he doesn´t know shit about my situation and he needs to bull himself together and stop being such a brat and a know it all and try to do the best he can do with how his life is now. He never knows how to stop.. And I tried my best to make it better and to make sure he felt better, but if he´s gonna go that way I legit can´t stand it anymore..
Anyway that was the first thing he wanted to argue so flippin much about that day. Next is in a discord server. And we were just sending memes a few of us (not him yet) and he send a meme about abortion.. Fine I don´t mind the meme.. But then he starts talking about abortion and that men have the right to have the baby even though the woman doesn´t and all this bullshit. I seriously was fed up with his shit already, so I said "Dude, stfu.. There´s a time for everything. This isn´t the time to talk about abortion.. And not in this chat" And he just continued.. And again I had to tell him off because he expected us to listen to him about this and have the same opinion.. I asked him why he gotta ruin my day 2 times in the same day.. After more arguing I left the server, and deleted him on every social media.. Because I can´t take it anymore. Why is he like this.. I can´t be friends with someone who doesn´t see that he is hurting someone and knows when to stop.. Everyone in the chat told him to just stop. After I left the server one of my actual good friends private messaged me and saying that he said in the chat that I need to stop being so sensitive to everything and it was my fault that I kept reading.. When in fact I went in the chat, we sent memes and laughed and he started suddenly (when no one wanted it) so talk about the serious topic..
Also this was on my countrys national day.. (Norway 17. May) And he still didn´t care..
So lesson learned.. If you have toxic friends, remove them. You don´t need shit from them..
Okay, so lets go to Saturday. I was a bit tired, but it was finally time for Eurovision which is something I live for. So in the day I just relaxed, but later me and my best friend made some snacks and watched it in my room since I have a TV and we could see it better. We had so much fun and died laughing at some of the songs. Also going on twitter and looking at Pewdiepies thoughts on the songs. We had so much fun I think it was illegal. Just kidding, but I think it was my favorite time spent with my best friend in a long time. Or since we watched Endgame in cinemas. I also like that The Netherlands won. The song was very nice. I also made a meme on twitter that got like 2K likes in 2 hours and almost anther thousand likes when hitting the 24 hour mark. Apparently it was funny.
Sunday rolls around and today I feel very productive. I went on a hike up the mountain and it took me 2.5 hours going up and down again. It was very warm too. Like over 65℉. For me it´s warm since I´m used to like half of that. But the view was great and there were so many people there it´s insane. I almost didn´t go all the way up. The beginning is horrible and so tiring, but when you´ve past the worst part it´s pretty easy.. I usually dance my way up and have no trouble after the worst part. There´s a lot of trees around so you get a lot of shadow which was needed. I was also very smart to wear all black.. and but on tights instead of shorts.. Nest time I´ll remember, but I survived.
When I got back down I ate some lunch, took a cold shower and then nap time. I slept for about 2 hours I believe. Not bad after 5 hours of sleep at night and then 2.5 hour hike in the heat. I didn´t feel like studying so I made some dinner and after I played Minecraft. I haven´t played it in a month and I need to finish removing the mountain so I can start building my castle, and the town of course.
Well, that was my week. On to a new one! How did your week go? Tell me in the comments. Also I hope to make videos again soon. I have many videos planned and some filmed. So when I´m finally done with my exam and moving I´ll start editing and uploading again.
Have a good week everyone!
xoxo SpaceMonkey
